That is why the VeV is now concentrating on implementing the upcoming change in the law. Our model proposal for this is the so-called double residence, also known in Switzerland by the outdated term “alternative model”.
By participating in a newly emerging international organization that has set itself the task of disseminating this model, the VeV is consistently advancing its goal of enabling children to have contact with both parents even after separation/divorce.
Two homes: the best arrangement for children after separation and divorce
Parity dual residency (alternating model) – a “win-win-win solution”
Bonn, August 13, 2013. The latest scientific findings show that the joint dual residence best serves the well-being of children after their parents' separation or divorce. The main advantage of the equal care of children by their two parents, also known as the alternating model, is that the bonds and family life with mother and father are preserved. The joint dual residency also promotes the compatibility of family and work and has positive effects for society.
“We must pacify the raging conflict between separating parents so that children can continue to benefit from their mothers and fathers. The joint dual residency must be recognized, accepted and implemented even more than before by society and the professions involved as a sensible and preferred solution.”
This resolution was adopted at the kick-off workshop of the International Platform for Parity Double Residence (twohomes.org) on 10/11. Adopted in Bonn in August 2013. This new organization brings together recognized scientific studies and proven experiences with the practical implementation of the joint dual residency.
Parents' associations, representatives of family professions and scientists from 14 countries in Europe and North America appeal to governments, judges, lawyers, mediators and social workers to create peace between parents and to establish new methods to better support families after parental separation.
VeV President Oliver Hunziker, member of the steering group, explains: “In the Western world, the joint dual residency is experiencing growing popularity. It is our stated goal to spread knowledge about the benefits of this model of care for children worldwide and to help overcome reservations that still prevail in the various legal systems.”
Current Swedish research results show that children of parents living apart suffer less from bullying in the case of shared dual residence than children with a single parent. Previous research from three continents has already shown that children continue to need both parents after parental separation and suffer if they have little contact with either parent. Children who live in dual residence do better in school and are less likely to suffer from mental health problems, child abuse, substance abuse, behavioral problems, developmental disabilities, delinquency and teenage pregnancy.