Therefore, the VeV is now focusing on implementing the upcoming legislative change. Our proposed model for this is the so-called dual residence, also known in Switzerland by the outdated term "alternating residence model".
By participating in a newly emerging international organization dedicated to promoting this model, VeV is consistently advancing its goal of enabling children to maintain contact with both parents even after separation/divorce.
Two homes: the best arrangement for children after separation and divorce
Shared parenting (alternating residence model) – a “win-win-win solution”
Bonn, August 13, 2013. Recent scientific findings demonstrate that shared parenting best serves the well-being of children after their parents' separation and divorce. The main advantage of this model, also known as alternating residence, where children are cared for equally by both parents, is that it preserves the bonds and family life with both mother and father. Shared parenting also promotes a better work-life balance and has positive effects on society.
"We must resolve the raging conflict between separating parents so that children can continue to benefit from both their mothers and their fathers. Shared parenting must be recognized, accepted, and implemented even more widely than before by society and the professionals involved as a sensible and preferred solution."
This resolution was adopted at the kick-off workshop of the International Platform for Shared Parenting (twohomes.org) on August 10th and 11th, 2013 in Bonn. This new organization combines recognized scientific research and proven experience with the practical implementation of shared parenting.
Parents' associations, representatives of family professions and scientists from 14 countries in Europe and North America are appealing to governments, judges, lawyers, mediators and social workers to make peace between parents and to establish new methods to better support families after a parental separation.
VeV President Oliver Hunziker, a member of the steering committee, explains: “In the Western world, shared parenting is gaining increasing acceptance. It is our stated goal to spread knowledge about the advantages of this custody model for children worldwide and to contribute to overcoming the reservations that still prevail in the various legal systems.”
Recent Swedish research shows that children of separated parents who share custody experience less bullying than children with a single parent. Previous research from three continents has already shown that children continue to need both parents after separation and suffer when they have little contact with one parent. Children living in shared custody arrangements perform better at school and are less likely to experience mental health problems, child abuse, substance abuse, behavioral issues, developmental disorders, delinquency, and teenage pregnancy.